Showing posts with label NLP. Show all posts
Showing posts with label NLP. Show all posts

Thursday, November 21, 2024

"All things I think I see reflect ideas."

 

"What I see reflects a process in my mind, which starts with my idea of what I want. From there, the mind makes up an image of the thing the mind desires, judges valuable, and therefore seeks to find. These images are then projected outward, looked upon, esteemed as real and guarded as one's own" (1:1-3).

Thursday, October 2, 2014

The Two Pictures: truth and illusion.




Powerless Over Your Thinking? The Steps To Freedom

Chapter 13 is the longest chapter of ACiM. Ken Wapnick called it the heart of the course.


A Course in Miracles is different from some other paths. Some paths suggest that if we use the law of attraction our outer world will look different. The Course does not guarantee a change in form, but does guarantee a change in mind

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

A Theory of Personality



The late Prescott Lecky (1), one of the pioneers in self-image psychology. Lecky conceived of the personality as a system of ideas, all of which must be consistent with each other. Ideas that are inconsistent with the system are rejected, "not believed," and not acted on. Ideas that seem to be consistent with the system are accepted. At the very center of this system of ideas-the keystone, or the base on which all else is built-is the individual's self-image, or his conception of himself.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

You live and move in HIM.



As for your true "Soul Mate," which you have been led by others to believe must be waiting for you somewhere, cease looking; for it exists not without in some other body, but within your own Soul. Excerpt from: Soul Mates - THE IMPERSONAL LIFE by Joseph S(ieber) Benner 1914


It is not necessary that the truth be made clear; it is enough if it hovers about us like spirit and produces harmony; if it vibrates through the air, gravely and kindly, like the sound of a bell.” Goethe

Ramdas:

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

There is no unbelief.



Often breathe this prayer: "Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my
heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer." —Ps.
19:14. Primary Lessons In Healing ~ Annie Rix Militz ~ [1910]

THE PRAYER FOR PROTECTION

Monday, March 10, 2014

The Silence is a medium by which man comes in a closer touch with the Infinite.



God's will for you is only good and nothing can withhold your good from you.

An inspiring verse from the Book of Revelation reminds you that nothing and no one keeps your good from you.  "Behold, I have set before you an open door, which no one is able to shut."

Jesus said, "It is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom."

The truth that the Master taught and demonstrated blesses you, for it reassures you that no one can withhold your good.  The power to attract your good and the power to sustain your good is within you.  All good that comes to you comes by right of spirituality consciousness.

God did not create a world of loss, lack, or limitation.  Those things are humankind's invention.  God's world is prosperous and perpetually new.  As you keep your faith centered in God's truth, as you know that you live in a spiritual world of perfect ideas, negation has no power over you.  You see the good in all persons and situations and you discover that the bounty of God is omnipresent.

Even when Jesus asked a person who was requesting prayer, “Do you believe?” it is translated closer in today's language to, “Can you accept?”

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Let God work through you instead of trying to make Him do something for you.




A simple 4-step technique on a regular basis to stop psychologically-caused insomnia, panic attacks and anxiety:
1. Take a deep breath and relax.     
2. Notice where the feeling is in your body. Even though it may be uncomfortable, be present with the feeling and stop your inner dialogue. Just feel it.
3. Now ask the feeling a question. Yes, this may seem a little odd—but it works: “What do I need to know to let you (the feeling) go?” Note the first thing that pops into your head.
4. Determine whether the feeling is still present. If so, be present with it, and ask the question again. Repeat until the feeling is gone. NeuroCalm: by Nannette DiMascio from Neuro Linguistic Programming experts present their techniques

"Love continues to shine like the sun, available to anyone who knows how to tap its vitality.." ~ Vironika Tugleva
I found a reference to Robert Collier among Silva’s notes

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

The Secret Place of Peace



Guy Finley: Within each of us, in our hearts and in our minds, there lives a special kind of light. In truth, it is... [continued]
God is the strength of my Life. Of whom then shall I be afraid?” ECH
Not Good Enough
Is it ever true that you aren’t good enough?
Good enough for what?

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Your good is waiting to be claimed now!

"No one can be helped until he listens to something higher than himself, and no one listens until seeing the need to listen." VLH
Life becomes the way it is lived; and man may live the way he wants to live when he learns to think what he wants to think. Christian D. Larson Your Forces and How to Use Them (1912)

Trust the Divine Goodness every minute. ECH



John Bascom's Science of Mind (the "often unrecognized father of New Thought.")




Deliberately dare to slow down your life when everything in you -- or around you -- is screaming "Rush." ~ Guy Finley
Every thought has its own special and peculiar vibration, and the vibration within us is what establishes the relationship with the currents in this formless energy where we get the atoms for our body and environment.

Saturday, June 22, 2013

I could choose peace instead of this.



"And when you are desirous to be blessed, I'll blessing beg of you"  Hamlet (III,iv)


The miracle does not awaken you, but merely shows you who the dreamer is. It teaches you there is a choice of dreams while you are still asleep, depending on the purpose of your dreaming. Do you wish for dreams of healing, or for dreams of death? (T-28.II.4:2-4)

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Focus on the journey, not the destination.



You are fitted to speak in public when principles enthuse you. Carry nothing to extremes except your understanding of Divine Law. Compel yourself to be faithful to whatever you promise to perform. ECH

Friday, May 17, 2013

The Four (4) Questions of Cartesian Logic and Cognitive Dissonance.



Cognitive Dissonance. is a psychological phenomenon which refers to the discomfort felt at a discrepancy between what you already know or believe, and new information or interpretation.
One often experiences strong dissonance when one believes something about oneself and then behaves in a way that is contrary to that belief. For example, if I believe I am good but do something bad, then the discomfort I feel as a result is cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is a very powerful motivator which will often lead people to change one or other of the conflicting attitude/belief or behavior. The discomfort often feels like a tension between the two opposing thoughts. 

Clearing emotions and limiting decisions with TimeLine Therapy / The Four (4) Questions of Cartesian Logic



Why the Emotions Disappear using Timeline Therapy, (or even Morty Lefkoe or Byron Katie’s “The Work”) for that matter.

Sunday, March 31, 2013

'Not in a thousand years,'



said Roy R., 'would I have seen myself as I really was, had it not been for a shocking experience. After years of family life, I suddenly found myself outside of the domestic circle which had given me a feeling of comfort and security. The shock showed me how weak and insecure I really was. Fortunately, my despair turned me toward a study of esoteric principles. I advise every beginner to also turn in this right direction.' VH
Esoteric(inner) and Exoteric(outer)

Monday, September 5, 2011

Puppet on a string.

Groundhog Day is a 1993 American comedy film directed by Harold Ramis, written by Ramis and Danny Rubin, based on a story by Rubin. It starred Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.

Murray played Phil Connors, an egocentric Pittsburgh TV weatherman who, during a hated assignment covering the annual Groundhog Day event in Punxsutawney, finds himself repeating the same day over and over again. After indulging in hedonism and numerous suicide attempts, he begins to re-examine his life and priorities.

The Plot:
A self-centered and sour TV meteorologist Phil Connors, news producer Rita and cameraman Larry from a fictional Pittsburgh television station travel to Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania, to cover the annual Groundhog Day festivities with Punxsutawney Phil. Having grown tired of this assignment, Phil grudgingly gives his report and attempts to return to Pittsburgh when a blizzard shuts down the roads. Phil and his team are forced to return to Punxsutawney and stay in town overnight.

Phil wakes up to find that he is reliving February 2. The day plays out exactly as it did before, with no one else aware of the time loop, and only Phil aware of past events. At first he is confused, but, when the phenomenon continues on subsequent days, he decides to take advantage of the situation with no fear of long-term consequences: he learns secrets from the town's residents, seduces women, steals money, drives recklessly, and gets thrown in jail. However, his attempts to get closer to Rita repeatedly fail.

Eventually, Phil becomes despondent and tries more and more drastically to end the time loop; he gives ridiculous and offensive reports on the festival, abuses residents, and eventually kidnaps Punxsutawney Phil and, after a police chase, drives into a quarry, evidently killing both himself and the groundhog. However, Phil wakes up and finds that nothing has changed; further attempts at suicide are just as fruitless as he continues to find himself awaking at 6:00 A.M. on the morning of February 2 with the clock-radio on his bedstand playing ”I Got You, Babe” by Sonny & Cher.
When Phil explains the situation to Rita, she suggests that he should take advantage of it to improve himself. Inspired, Phil endeavours to try to learn more about Rita, building upon his knowledge of her and the town each day. He begins to use his by-now vast experience of the day to help as many people around town as possible. He uses the time to learn, among other things, to play piano, ice sculpt and speak French.

Eventually, Phil is able to befriend almost everyone he meets during the day, using his experiences to save lives, help townspeople, and to get closer to Rita. He crafts a report on the Groundhog Day celebration so eloquent that all the other stations turn their microphones to him. After the evening dance, Rita and Phil retire together to Phil's room. He wakes the next morning and finds the time loop is broken; it is now February 3 and Rita is still with him. After going outside, Phil talks about living in Punxsutawney with Rita.

We tend to relive the past, “If only …” and not let it go.

Prayer is a controlled waking dream. If we are to pray successfully, we must steady our attention to observe the world as it would be seen by us were our prayer answered. ~ Neville
Have you ever visualized your day the way you would have liked it to go? Do you wish you didn't do or say something? Do you wish you had worked on a project instead of channel hopping or internet surfing for hours and found nothing interesting? Just review your whole day and replay areas of your day the way you wish they were. Make it a reality in your imagination. Even if you got negative news, replay it in your imagination in a positive light. Reality is created first, in your imagination.

Even if events happen, you can take away the hurt by visualizing a positive outcome. Say you had an argument with someone at work. You can visualize the experience, as having gone on without any confrontation at all. The funny thing is that your visualization may affect the other person on a subconscious level. We are all interconnected spiritually.Mind affects mind” as P.P. Quimby would say. If you send out positive thoughts, then expect only good things. You don't have to react to circumstances -- you can create them instead.
All your affairs, as you now look at them, represent your former way of thinking. They are held together by the glue of your former ideas. Now if you withdraw that glue, what can you expect, but that your affairs will all fall to pieces to let new affairs, representing your new way of thinking establish themselves. --Emma Curtis Hopkins


If you visualize bad things, then what will come back to you? Your thoughts are very powerful -- you must be careful with them. Thoughts are things. Watch how you speak to yourself, your inner dialogue. You are what you think.

Visualization is equivalent to programming a computer, except you are programming your own mind.
Think of a puppet on a string. It doesn’t move, lift an arm or leg until someone pulls the string. And you, dear reader, are that puppet. Your mind controls the strings and you act and feel accordingly.

Another thing you can do is to revise past events that are still bothering you. They could have been from years back. However, any guilt or anger from a past event can hold your progress back in your current life. You have to forgive to be able to move on in life. Anger and feelings of guilt9emotions), attract discord. Rather than being argumentative or to be pessimistic be an optimist instead. You attract into your life what you imagine and what you BELIEVE you are.
Neville gave beautiful examples of visualization:
http://pvrguymale.blogspot.com/2011/08/prayer-is-act-of-imaginative-love.html
http://pvrguymale.blogspot.com/2011/08/awakened-imagination.html

In NLP[1] you would:
Close your eyes and imagine that you are sitting in a movie theatre viewing a large screen with a still black and white snapshot of yourself doing something emotionally neutral. See yourself leaving your body and floating or walking up to the theatre projection booth until you are safely behind the glass where, in a very detached manner, you can view yourself sitting at a distance in the audience looking up at the picture of yourself on the movie screen. Stay in the projection booth running the black and white movie of yourself proceeding through the days events just as they actually happened. Run the movie from beginning to end while watching yourself in the audience looking up at the movie of yourself fully engrossed in the events. Replay the movie, change the events, change the people and voices ( make them cartoonish), and continue over and over.

House of Cards (1993), starring Kathleen Turner, Tommy Lee Jones and Asha Menina was a great film about entering another persons world.

When her husband is killed in a fall at an archaeological dig, the mothers daughter handles her father's death in a very odd manner. As her condition worsens, the mother takes her to see an expert in childhood autism. The doctor attempts to bring the daughter out of her mental disarray through traditional therapy methods, but the mother takes a different route. She attempts to enter her daughter's mind and make sense of the seemingly bizarre things that she does, including building a wondrous house of cards.

[1]
http://pvrguymale.blogspot.com/2011/08/positive-intentions.html
http://pvrguymale.blogspot.com/2009/02/get-life-you-want.html

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Positive Intentions

The term positive is generally used to mean "desirable" or "beneficial", and negative is generally used to mean "undesirable" or "bad". However, in neuro-linguistic programming they have a specific meanings in the phrases positive intent and stated in the positive, and negative intent and stated in the negative.

In this sense, the term is used to mean linguistically stated in the affirmatory. In other words, a goal or intent is said to be positively stated if it is stated by reference to a state or thing one desires, and it is said to be negatively stated by reference to a state or thing one wishes to avoid.
Virginia Satir originated a slightly different meaning of the phrase positive intention. She believed that digging deeply into a client's dysfunctional or damaging behaviour should find that the client is trying to achieve a positive intent through undesirable behaviour, unconsciously ineptly and harmfully, and that the dysfunction could often be helped by finding other ways to honor that positive intention.

In a similar vein, psychiatrist R. D. Laing[1] had argued that the symptoms of what is normally called mental illness are comprehensible reactions to impossible demands that society and family life place on sensitive individuals.

The following statements are all positive intent or stated in the positive, regardless of whether they are beneficial or damaging wishes:
Stated in the positive
• I want a car with a 6 litre engine.
• I'm hoping to retire in 5 years.
• I'd like to steal/harm/take something or someone (stated in the positive in the technical linguistic and NLP senses, and would constitute a "positive intention", though negative in an everyday sense).

The significance of this comes from the psychological phenomenon claimed by some, that the mind does not always process neuro-linguistically negatives well. For example, when one focuses on what he or she does not want, the mind may, at some level, imagine the object to be avoided more than the relational word "not.

A person's intention in performing an action is his or her specific purpose in doing so, the end or goal at which he or she aims or intends to accomplish. Whether an action is successful or unsuccessful depends at least on whether the intended result was brought about. The aphorism in NLP is that all human action fulfils a positive intent at some level. Often, the intent, if explored, will be quite surprising and revealing, and suggest new directions of thought, especially to people who habitually think in terms of negative intention.
For example:

• I don't want to take that job
Possible positive intention: I want to be able to relax
Possible effect: the client may come to see that the job need not in fact be in conflict with relaxation, or may explore ways to remain calm at work. Otherwise, if the job be detrimental, the client should consider a different career or other forms of relaxation outside work.
For these reasons, in NLP it is generally seen as more beneficial to focus on the opportunities a person has, other than those he or she wants to be gone.


[1] Ronald David Laing (1927 –1989) was a Scottish psychiatrist who wrote extensively on mental illness – in particular, the experience of psychosis. Laing's views on the causes and treatment of serious mental dysfunction, greatly influenced by existential philosophy, ran counter to the psychiatric orthodoxy of the day by taking the expressed feelings of the individual patient or client as valid descriptions of lived experience rather than simply as symptoms of some separate or underlying disorder.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

VAK

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Visual learners have a preference for seeing (think in pictures; visual aids such as overhead slides, diagrams, handouts, etc.).

Auditory learners best learn through listening (lectures, discussions, tapes, etc.).

Tactile/Kinesthetic learners prefer to learn via experience—moving, touching, and doing (active exploration of the world; science projects; experiments, etc.).

Its use in pedagogy allows teachers to prepare classes that address each of these areas. Students can also use the model to identify their preferred learning style and maximize their educational experience by focusing on what benefits them the most.

The position of the eyes can tell you how someone is processing the information at hand.

It's from the work of Neuro-linguistic programming