Showing posts with label Richard Bandler. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Richard Bandler. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

It's a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World.




"Ordinarily, staring is creepy. But if you spread your attention across many individuals, then it's just people watching." Sheng Wang


“The larger the island of knowledge, the longer the shoreline of wonder.” Ralph W. Sockman

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

A Theory of Personality



The late Prescott Lecky (1), one of the pioneers in self-image psychology. Lecky conceived of the personality as a system of ideas, all of which must be consistent with each other. Ideas that are inconsistent with the system are rejected, "not believed," and not acted on. Ideas that seem to be consistent with the system are accepted. At the very center of this system of ideas-the keystone, or the base on which all else is built-is the individual's self-image, or his conception of himself.

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Not the YEARS in your life but the LIFE in your years.


THE GOSPEL OF THOMAS


Gospel of Thomas
 The Gospel of Thomas Collection
The Nag Hammadi Library, a collection of thirteen ancient codices containing over fifty texts, was discovered in upper Egypt in 1945. This immensely important discovery includes a large number of primary "Gnostic Gospels" -- texts once thought to have been entirely destroyed during the early Christian struggle to define "orthodoxy" -- scriptures such as the Gospel of Thomas, the Gospel of Philip, and the Gospel of Truth.
I think by now everyone knows the Gospel of Thomas can be read at the Nag Hammadi Library.
#36 reminds of a time at my aunts. I fretted until 2 am about standing on a 6ft wooden step ladder to clean out her eaves trough. At 8am the next morning she had an anxiety attack when the PSW came. We got her into the living room on the couch and quieted her down. She told me not to leave her alone so I sat in a chair and didn’t leave. The PSW was great and got some apple sauce because she was almost out and needed it to take her pills. And her lawyer even went and got her prescription.
Yearning is wanting to be someplace else,
Trust is knowing you are where you were meant to be.
I was supposed to be there. There was someplace else I really wanted to be with someone else. And try as I did nothing seemed to work. I finally used that time to study ACIM. I had waited and waited to study it with a friend who introduced me to it after seeing Jon Mundy at Kripalu (http://kripalu.org/). But they were more interested in the “Abraham Teachings”.
After about 120 lessons I realized the healing modalities I knew of were just a belief in you relation to God. If God is energy there’s an external energy people use. Another modality grounds people, which connects them to the earth which they believe God created. Some people bless the Chemo machine, the same idea. Still another, people feel disconnected so connecting strings and strands to an imaginary grid works for them. It’s their belief. Your belief of what you are that determines what works for you. I did a demo of the Reconnection Healing once. A lady opened her eyes after 20 minutes and asked when I was going to start. That got me thinking. I went on to discover Quimby and New Thought. My fiend still believes in new age stuff. They didn’t share my enthusiasm over Quimby and ACIM.
I just blogged this on Fantasy prone personality (FPP). (http://goalhypnosis.blogspot.ca/2012/06/fantasy-prone-personality.html) You can’t judge a book by it’s cover. It's what is inside that counts. How much do you know about the other peoples childhood. As ACIM teaches it’s not our perception but our interpretation of what our eyes believe they see.  Our real job is remember what we are, wake up from the dream and return home. Forgiveness is the key.
Something is true for everyone or not true at all Troward would say.
You determine the Truth. You don’t have to worry or be concerned of the misstatements of others as William Samuel said.
I was at a Car show last night with a friend. He grew up in a foster home and knows all about cars. I don’t. I sat in the shade while he took pictures. He believes in Sin. I don’t.  I accept him and let him be.
Jane WoodwardsGod in a Box” is also about living life, not being an observer of life. William Samuel says the same thing. You find your inner balance and peace. And start NOW, don’t wait for others.
It doesn’t pay to worry. You never know what might happen. Often nothing does.
Fear is always False Evidence Appearing Real
I saw a great quote which I’ll paraphrase: “Alien movies are great entertainment and metaphors for our own fears, but we should not consider them harbingers of alien visitation.”
 If there were ET’s they’d be children of God too.
Can you judge a book by it’s cover?  No. I bought some ‘No Money Down’ books back in the early 80’s. Written on nice thick paper.  I became disillusioned when I saw an article that someone based in Vancouver had found even thicker paper to make the books even thicker but his partners had pulled the plug because people were no longer buying into it. Was anyone ever dropped off in a city without money that could wheel and deal? They said it but never proved it. Mind you people that do their homework and invested  have made money. One ‘No Money Downer’ even set up a production company in Arizona and went on to produce infomercials. People always have ideas on how to make money. But my lesson was to go to the source. NLP was another example. Bandler and Grinder created it, so I read their books to discover what it’s all about.  And, ultimately,  our source of everything is God.  
Most of us were instilled with beliefs by the time we were 5 or 6. We add to them. But we can also change or release some of the olds one too.
So far as Truth is concerned there is no power or importance in past lives, psychics, tarot cards or anything for that matter. These things are merely things or ideas with no power to help or harm.
God is the Reality.
God, Truth, Fact, Reality is the value, power and importance.
Dreams? Merely show our readiness for God. Are they loving or fearful? Or are they a reminder we still have a ways to go?
Footnote: My aunt never mentioned how much money she had in the bank. And I never asked. When she died I was given a copy of the will and never bothered reading all of it. If she wanted me to know she would have told me. She did okay. After keeping her husbands ashes in the closet for close to 25 years they were reunited at their camp, in the spot of HER choosing, with a great view. That was her only real goal.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

VAK

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Visual learners have a preference for seeing (think in pictures; visual aids such as overhead slides, diagrams, handouts, etc.).

Auditory learners best learn through listening (lectures, discussions, tapes, etc.).

Tactile/Kinesthetic learners prefer to learn via experience—moving, touching, and doing (active exploration of the world; science projects; experiments, etc.).

Its use in pedagogy allows teachers to prepare classes that address each of these areas. Students can also use the model to identify their preferred learning style and maximize their educational experience by focusing on what benefits them the most.

The position of the eyes can tell you how someone is processing the information at hand.

It's from the work of Neuro-linguistic programming

Friday, February 13, 2009

FriFeb13

Today is the day everyone rides their hogs to Port Dover. Their poor little feet.

I read last night about someone who had a stroke some years back. Just before he was knocked out in surgery a doctor leaned over, put a hand on either side of their face and said "No matter what anyone says to you, no matter who they are, I am telling you, you can make a full recovery".

A few days later someone said "You've had a stroke, the stroke will paralyze you for the rest of your life.". They remembered what the doctor had said in surgery. They started by wiggling one toe, then the other , then some feeling in a leg, then more, then even more. Every day was aimed at some small improvement over the previous day.

Beware of the prophets of dooms. There are documented cases of spontaneous remission where people make a full recovery. Doctors, psychiatrists, nurses, your relatives and your friends are not psychic.

I'm glad he didn't listen. Richard Bandler went on to write "A Guide to trance-Formation" and "Get The Life You Want" which I'm reading.

Both the text and "Manual For Teachers" in ACIM address healing. (Which isn`t to suggest that studying the course will lead to healing the physical only that it explains disease.).


If a relationship isn't built on two people becoming healthier together, happier together, building good memories, and building a good life together, then one partner drains the life out of the other, one way or another.”. Read that in Richard Bandlers' book “Get the Life You Want” . It reminded me of this from D. Patrick Millers' book “Understanding A Course in Miracles” : “Rather than a couple joining to raise their status in the world, it would be about two people joining in an inner transformation, in which they become more healthy, whole, loving, and kindly inwardly, and thus become a benefit to others around them. That's probably the common essence of any goal two people can join in for a holy purpose.”.

Begin each day with the prayer:
"Help me to perform whatever miracles you want of me today."
Whether it's the smile you give a stranger or the joke you crack to the clerk or cashier to make them smile.
The love you take. Is equal to. The love you make.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

WedFeb11


There are two types of time lines (From Richard Bandler: "Get The Life You Want".)

In Time:

  • The past is behind, the future is in front.
  • You don't remember the past or not often.
Through Time:
  • The past is on your left, the future is on your right.
  • You remember past events and are pretty punctual.
That blew me away. My poor mother. A husband and 3 sons In Time while she and I were moving Through Time. Next time I show up on time to pick someone up and they're not ready I'll know why.

The Nag Hammadi Library ( http://www.gnosis.org/naghamm/nhlcodex.html ) has: the Gospel Of Truth, the Gospel Of Thomas and the Gospel of Philip. Having read the Gospel of Thomas; the Gospel of Philip reminded me of it.
I read Elaine Pagels book “Beyond Belief: The Secret Gospel of Thomas” years ago. In a nutshell anything not in the Bible was ordered destroyed. So they hid all the manuscripts from the great library in Egypt. They expand on it rather than hinder it's understanding. It was democratic. Anyone that didn't go along with them was dropped off on a deserted island. I thought that was rather amusing.

Ken Wapnick used the phrase “Some of the ancient Gnostic texts have Jesus speak about how he is "regaining himself," or "rejoining with himself," how he is "collecting all the fragments and reuniting them within himself." ”. Try http://www.gnosis.org/library/valentinus/index.html
Free Lectures from the Gnostic Society are available at http://bcrecordings.net/store/index.php?main_page=page_4
  • Gnosticism: New Light on the Ancient Tradition of Inner Knowing
  • The Greatest Treasures of Nag Hammadi
  • An Introduction to The Gospel of Judas
  • Altered States Ancient and Modern (it says Tennyson used the phrase “the individuality of self fades away”, he chanted his own name over and over to calm his mind; Richard Bandler(who says to quiet your mind think "shut up, shut up, shut up") refers to Altered States in his work too, but it's using the power of the mind to overcome things; these are forms of meditation, the state where all thought ceases)
  • and others
Akhenaten (often also spelled Echnaton, Akhnaton, or rarely Ikhnaton) introduced monotheism, the belief that only one god exists, in Egypt represented by Aten (or Aton) . Did his family use Mandrake to reach altered states of consciousness? (Lecture 4 above). Monotheism set the stage for Moses. Did you know Gypsy is derived from Egyptian?

Monday, February 9, 2009

GET THE LIFE YOU WANT

by Richard Bandler. One of the co-founders of NLP. His last book was "Guide to TRANCE-formation". This book is a guide to behaviour and how to change it. You can see him on you tube too.
Now, to be fair, you need to see John Grinder ,the other co-founder, on this YouTube or here.