Commitment
Although it's not always easy,
this is part of loving someone
unconditionally
with all your heart and
with all you have to give!
It's a promise that should last a lifetime.
It
describes you as a person
and
describes the essence of your soul.
It's a promise to be there,
one for the other,
no matter what happens,
no matter who falls.
For better or for worse.
For better
or
for worse.
(Lynn Johnson)
Joseph Murphy in "The Power of Your Subconscious Mind" suggests:
It must begin on a sound spiritual balance. It must be of the heart, and the heart is the chalice of love. You don't marry for position or for security. "
Divorce begins in the mind.
Nagging is a cry for attention but pushes the partner away. It also reflects a desire to make the partner conform to a certain way.
Discussing marital problems with family or friends who give the wrong advice.
Degrading or belittling the other in the eyes of anyone else is always a reflection of that persons thoughts and feelings.
Don't remake your partner.
But, of course adjustments are needed.
Pray together, stay together.
Maybe the goal of marriage should be as Nouk Sanchez and Tomas Vieira set for theirs.
To remove the blockages so that we may realize love in and all around us.
Real love.
Decide what's important. Loving now or holding on to the past.
A hug and a kiss from a dog are priceless. Dogs look into your soul.
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