Tuesday, April 22, 2014
Three gates of gold
We are
charged to test the fitness of our words, the little things in our daily
conversation, by making them pass
THREE GATES
OF GOLD.
"If you
are tempted to reveal a tale
Someone to
you has told about another,
Make it
pass, before you speak,
Three gates
of gold —
Three narrow
gates :
First — Is it true?
Then, Is it needful?
And there is last and narrowest —
Is it kind?
And if at
last to leave your lips
It passes
through these gateways three,
Then you the
tale may tell,
Nor fear
what the result may be."
Well, if I am not
getting from my heavenly Father just what I want most to get, does it ever
occur to me that I may not be doing the things He specially asks me to do? What
does He ask me to do? Why, to show good will to neighbors and acquaintances and
strangers--doesn't He? Well, do I show
good will?
Oh yes, I am polite
to other people. I show them ordinary courtesies. I even do favors sometimes
for people to whom I think I owe nothing. I do quite a lot of creditable things
when I am in their company--to their faces. But what do I do in their absence--behind
their backs? Do I show them good will then? Am I the kind that is a friend to a
man's face, and an enemy behind his back? That is, do I show him a face of good
will, and then knife him from behind? Do I give attention to his bodily ease
and his pleasure in company, and then stab him in the reputation when he isn't
looking? Do I salve him with flattery when he is in a position to defend
himself, and then set the fire of ridicule going among his friends when he is
off guard?
Do I, for instance,
lead the applause at the luncheon or the club meeting, where Bill Johnson
speaks, and slap him on the back afterwards and tell him it was great--and then
whisper to Smith on the way out, "Well, old Bill was just as great a bore
as usual. I wonder if his wife never tells him to get some new stories?"
Do I, for instance,
congratulate Jim Smith on his promotion to the place of general manager-- and
then tell Tom Warren, "Yes, Smith got the job all right, but he won't last
long. He's a slave driver."
Do I, for instance,
talk public-spiritedly about standing shoulder to shoulder in time of business
stress, and then tell Ken Travis that Tom Warren will bear watching and that
"he is sure to trim you if you are not careful."
Do I, for instance,
comment with a grin on Jessup's frayed tie, or Halley's grammatical break, or
high words I overheard between Sanders and his wife, or the grass that grows up
through Hemming's front walk, or Brown's pallid paunchiness, or Lane's rotten
old pipe, or Barnes's impudent children, or Perry's long fish story, or Bell's
embarrassment when called on to speak at the church supper? Do I go around
making good stories out of the failings of other people, getting laughs at
their expense, cutting their reputations to ribbons, scorching their friendships
to raise a laugh? Do I?
Well, my Father
particularly asked me not to do that sort of thing, didn't He? Didn't He say,
first, through my Elder Brother, "Judge not"? Then didn't He say,
"Love one another," and whatsoever ye would that men should do unto
you . . ."? Didn't He? Well, just why do I disobey and disregard His
special requests? Do I expect that it is going to make it easier for Him to
give me mine?
Basil King, in
his remarkable book "Faith
and Success," tells of an
almost miraculous change in his fortunes, when he stopped doing little
unkindnesses behind people's backs. It was a singularly honest and singularly
helpful confession. He said he came to the conclusion that the channel between
him and God--or rather between God and him--was like other channels, more often
filled up with silt than with great falls of rock, and that the silt that fills
up the God channel is made up of what we think of as "little"
sins--little meannesses, little bits of unkind ridicule, little bits of gossip,
little unfavorable comments, little offenses against the law of love, while it
great" sins like stealing and killing are rare among us. But
"silt"--a lot of it, gathering by slow accretion--may fill up the
channel just as effectively as a great fall of rock! Maybe a lot more
effectively.
Mr. King, by
his own account, tells his own story in the book I have mentioned. He says his
"luck" changed the very day he stopped dealing in mean gossip and
ridicule of others. He says that instead of having to go after the things he
wanted, they began to come to him. He was blessed--so much blessed that he had
to tell the world about it. WORKING WITH GOD BY GARDNER HUNTING
"Whoever
will never give another pain, either by thought, word or deed, is exempt from
pain forever." —
(Annie Rix Militz.)
Remember: Expect Miracles!
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