At some point you've got to draw a line in the sand, cross it, and never go back.

Guy Finley: Events in our lives serve lessons. Lessons serve truths. And each truth that we will submit to changes us into... [continued]

'I have done this thing, and it is this I would undo'.

One of the methods that they have found will work every time in getting rid of troublesome conditions (which are all the result of erroneous thinking and feeling) is to deny them in total: First, to deny that any such things have, or could have, power to make us unhappy; second, to deny that these things do in reality exist at all. Lessons in Truth, by H. Emilie Cady, [1894]

Universal Principles

Arnold Patent, shares his wisdom...in this 2-part video set
(Arnold Patent - Universal Principles/The Journey Ed./1 of 2,
Arnold Patent - Universal Principles/The Journey Ed./2 of 2),
 from his book "The Journey", Arnold describes 19 Universal Principles:

1. Energy
2. Infinite Intelligence, or God
3. Oneness
4. There is Nothing Outside of Us
5. Perfection
6. Beliefs
7. Intuition, Feelings & Power
8. Mutual Support
9. The Mirror Principle
10. Nonjudgment
11. Purpose
12. Comfort & Discomfort
13. Abundance
14. Giving & Receiving
15. Nonattachment & Freedom
16. Expressing Who We Really Are
17. Means & Ends
18. Harmony in Relationships
19. The Universe Handles the Details

Events have no inherent meaning

You can never draw any conclusion, for sure, from an event. In other words, you can’t know anything for sure about anything merely as the result of an event or a series of events. All you can know for sure is that the event happened.

What YOU see is what YOU get. II

Projection makes perception; the world you see is what you GAVE it, nothing more than that. The outside picture of an inward condition. As a man thinketh, so does he perceive. Perception is a RESULT, and not a cause.

"I AM responsible for what I see.
I CHOSE the feelings I experience, and I DECIDED ON the goal I would achieve.
And everything that SEEMS to happen TO me, I ASKED FOR and received as I had asked."