Monday, June 2, 2014
Teach it to the teachers.
A teacher who is
principal of a school asks, “What
can I substitute for corporal punishment in school when the teachers appeal to
me for assistance? They expect and want me to use it."
Substitute love, of course! Teach it to the teachers.
When a teacher tries to compel a child to do a
thing that it does not want to do, it is generally because she wants to be
obeyed, and not that she has the good of the child at heart; if she had the
good of the child at heart she would not think of compelling it to do a thing
it did not want to do, but she would reason with it either audibly or silently.
She would tell it that it is a good child
(which it is) ; that it loves to do right (which it does, I assure you); that
it has no other intention or wish; that it loves to be good; that it is so
happy in being good; that it cannot be anything else but good, and that it
knows that it cannot be anything else but good.
She would tell it that it is free from all false beliefs
of the race about children ever being naughty; that it is not deceived by any
such false notions; that it knows the Truth; that it is a wise and sensible and
intelligent child, and the best and most loving child in all the world, and she
would find that the little thing would try its very best to please her, and
that at these few spoken words of Truth, its little heart would swell and
overflow with love and gratitude because it was being rightly judged and spoken
truly of.
If teachers and parents would think and speak
as they should, it would help the children to do as they should.
To this teacher
who does not know how to apply true thinking in her school, I must say—when you
are sent for to discipline a child, take him into a class room alone and reason
with him there; let him see that you want to be his friend; if you cannot take
him alone, drop the matter with the request that he remain after school; nobody
need know whether you whipped him or not; if you are called upon to do the
punishing, you have a right to do it your own way. Never, never punish or
reprimand a pupil before any one else; nothing takes away the self-respect of
any one so much as to be punished in the presence of other people. HEILBRDUN; OR, DROPS FROM THE FOUNTAIN OF HEALTH. BY FANNY
M. HARLEY 1898
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