Saturday, May 16, 2009

Cathleen Fanslowe-Brunjes ...

wrote a delightful book
"USING THE POWER OF HOPE TO COPE WITH THE DYING : The Four Stages of Hope"
Whether you are a Nurse, PersonalSupportWorker, Hospice volunteer or simply have a palliative family member this book will help each and everyone of you.
Her nine strategies helpful to the dying I can personally say are often neglected
  1. Visit
  2. Ask what they need or want
  3. Call if you can't come
  4. Send mail
  5. Allow for silence
  6. Leave something personal
  7. Send gifts
  8. Reassure them they are not forgotten
  9. Keep your promises

But I think I'd add be genuinely sincere.

The chapter "Wisdom of the Dying and the Choice of the Moment" is insightful.

She also has a chapter on the Hand-Heart Connection. TTer's will know about it. Everyone should.

It is their experience, but it's also yours!
What will you take away from it?
How will it help you grow?

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